The modern day
Christian singles are faced with a lot of relationship
complications more than ever in the history of mankind. Our world
has changed magnanimously, as the advent in the discoveries of
men have soared opening to man new horizons and exposing him to
the world, new peoples, new religions, new technology and so on.
It is in this complex juxtaposition of life that the Christian
singles have found themselves in, as they try to remain faithful
to the Lord and make use of the best the world has to offer
without being tempted into sin or compromising their belief,
which is sometimes very hard to maintain.
The period past the period of puberty ushers in early adulthood
where a human being finds himself thinking of issues to do with
marriage and courtship. When God created man and woman, he
created them in a way that after maturity, their lives will be
after finding each other, every person looking for that ample
mate whom God created for him/her. Christian singles must
realize that everything that has to do with relationships, from
finding the right person to start a lifetime discovery with is a
gift from God, and he blesses every union cultivated from tenets
of love and trust in Him.
The question then is, if God blesses every union, why do I feel
like I married or I am dating the wrong person? The answer is
simple; it's true God blesses every union of two people but your
choice of partner must have been driven by a criterion that did
not lead you to your God endowed mate. Except for Adam and Eve,
the rest of us have a very long list of human beings to go
through as we search for that ample partner whom our heart has
been craving for. Christian singles have not been involving the
most important being, God, in their search for the right partner,
leading them to more disappointments in future.
The world today has no mercy for anybody, even the brethrens.
People everywhere come with different motives which are not God
endowed and they convince the Christian singles into falling into
the hands of sin and wrong choice. The criteria we use nowadays
towards getting the right dating partner is very subjective and
affected by different issues that leave us regretting the reason
as to why we started our relationships.
In case you walk around and you get to where people are
complaining about their marriage, saying that their partner is
nagging, doesn't care about them, is fornicating and so on,
realize that along the line somebody made the wrong choice and
he/she must be reaping the fruits of their choice. The first
thing that hits you is that they are complaining in public, while
in solid relationships that had Christian singles putting God
first in each and step of the way have them appreciating each
other and public outbursts are absent, unless of course they are
praising their partner.
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